Things that can happen when you’re doing what you love

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Dear Friend,

I’ve had such a great experience this past month. So great it didn’t even feel like a month while I was in it. I realised that it was because I was doing what I love. Even in the stressful moments, I knew I would not rather do anything else. This letter is more fun than anything, but it’s worth thinking about. Do you experience any of the things I do? Are you doing what you love?

So here’s what happens to me when I’m doing what I love:

1. I forget what day of the week it is and don’t even mind “working” on the weekend.

2. I want to do it more.

3. I want to learn all there is to know about how to do it better.

4. I almost don’t even care if others think it’s a good choice or not (you know I seek external advice a lot when I’m uncertain).

5. I’m doing what I love, so I love what I do. It’s hard not to be content and satisfied.

6. At the same time, I’m never fully satisfied, which pushes me forward. You’re either going forward or backward. I choose forward.

7. I am able to RELEASE past hurt. Rejection, dismissal, harsh words… the memories of those were weighing on me REALLY HEAVILY. Knowing that I am following the path I love allows me to say a healthy and forgiving and definite goodbye to all of them. I swear I feel 10 lbs lighter.

8. I lose track of time. Hours will pass before I know it. I can spend 10 hours rehearsing and not feel drained (not every day, mind you, but still).

9. At the same time, I find time also slows right down in the best way. When I’m stressed and rushing to do something or go somewhere that doesn’t serve my spirit, it’s like there’s never enough time. When I’m living according to my purpose and passion, it feels like I have all the time in the world and everything gets done.

What things happen to you when you’re doing what you love? I’d love to hear from you! If you’re a wordpress member, share in the comments! If not, feel free to message me wherever you connect with me and I’ll share them in the comments for you.

All my love,
Angel xo

 

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You Always Have a Choice

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Dear Friend,

How many times have you said (or heard someone say), “I had no choice”? When was the last time you said it, if you can remember? Today I just want to highlight how much power you give away unnecessarily when you affirm that. I mean, sure, sometimes the choice is obvious to you or maybe it’s the only logical or practical choice. But you always have a choice.

And it’s not just in what you do. It’s also in what you think and how you choose to see things. For example, I received an e-mail at 7pm today telling me I had to have something ready by tomorrow at noon. It’s a time-consuming activity that I had not planned on undertaking today, my day of rest. Not that I can’t do it, I just didn’t want to. But, it would be easy to say here, I have no choice. I have to do it. Really I don’t have to do it. But it’s in my best interest to do it, so I will. The other thing I don’t have to do, is see it as a problem. <Insert “whoa moment” here>

You can totally adjust your thinking so that it serves you rather than hinders you. In my case, it helps no one, least of all me, to grumble and get annoyed that I got such short notice to do this activity that I don’t generally enjoy doing anyway. “I can’t help but feel this way” is only true if you make decisions that form the premise for that thought. If you’ve decided, “I hate getting short notice,” then naturally any time you’re given short (or no) notice, you will be upset.

As for actions, no matter how dire the situation, I still maintain you always have a choice. We don’t need to go into the grizzlies of this, but if you want to, feel free to write back!

Either way, I find it really helps me to realise that my thoughts, my outlook, and my actions are always my choice. No one else has control over that. It’s both empowering and challenging, because now you see all the responsibility lies with you. But you can choose to see that challenge as an obstacle or an opportunity. It’s always up to you.

 

All my love,

Angel xo

 

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